moved in to 14

moved into hall last week. think its not tat productive actually. im losing focus, im not being efficient enough.

it's easier said than done even if you know where your attention should be spent at. =\

recently there's a dispute regarding work. it was apparent there was some miscommunication between the 2 parties. however 1 party tried to contact the other, but the other never return the initiative. due to certain conflicts, the passive party instead talk to friends whom she trust, listening to their biased opinion.. the resulting misunderstanding was aggravated, irrational impulsive actions were taken and damage was done. i was of course infuriated, then i realize i grew tired haha. but it got resolved nicely in the end.

Lesson learned here is.. : Communicate more with the party involved, you can seek 1000 opinions, but is it really relevant? Keeping how you feel to yourself and only talking about it to your friends may not be very fair to the other party.

I can think of a certain somebody who could use this advice....

PS: Hey guys, it's not that i'm not patient.. have you heard my side of the story yet? i think you guys might have a clearer picture than me of the other side of the story.

~life is beautiful..becos this world is imperfect~