the ways out

the slack way out: do things only when deadline are approaching

the easy way out: hire a PA and practically task all reminders (& work) to this person

the right way out: properly plan your time, utilize every minute (don't even blog), sleep less but work more. rest only enough and eat just to nourish the body

the realistic way out: try your darnest best to achieve the right way out, without thinking too much of the easy way out or dreaming your slack way out.

Breathe, sleep, eat... BS Club

Think....

~life is beautiful..becos this world is imperfect~

moved in to 14

moved into hall last week. think its not tat productive actually. im losing focus, im not being efficient enough.

it's easier said than done even if you know where your attention should be spent at. =\

recently there's a dispute regarding work. it was apparent there was some miscommunication between the 2 parties. however 1 party tried to contact the other, but the other never return the initiative. due to certain conflicts, the passive party instead talk to friends whom she trust, listening to their biased opinion.. the resulting misunderstanding was aggravated, irrational impulsive actions were taken and damage was done. i was of course infuriated, then i realize i grew tired haha. but it got resolved nicely in the end.

Lesson learned here is.. : Communicate more with the party involved, you can seek 1000 opinions, but is it really relevant? Keeping how you feel to yourself and only talking about it to your friends may not be very fair to the other party.

I can think of a certain somebody who could use this advice....

PS: Hey guys, it's not that i'm not patient.. have you heard my side of the story yet? i think you guys might have a clearer picture than me of the other side of the story.

~life is beautiful..becos this world is imperfect~

if i say that..

i want to take up part time job on top of presidency, research, studies..

i took a withdrawal form from SSC and filled it up..

i think home is the best place to be, but the wrong place to be at this very moment..

i think life is now more of a blur and time seems to have not stopped..

i think we're always tempted to do the wrong things with a tinge of irony..

i recieved hundreds and sent hundreds of sms per week but there's always one missing..

which one will you believe?


~life is beautiful..becos this world is imperfect~

We went for safe and got lost along the wayy~~

Quoted off meihua's msn nick some time ago. Yea, a lot of times we have too much at risk that we opt for the safe way. Life's really too unpredictable and we're too logical.

May 28, Wednesday. Can we bring it back? Maybe it was never lost in the first place.

white sesame... ji bai nian.... 55, 99, 67, 97, 12, 12... topshop&zara....


Joke:

Two guys are sitting in a bar.
The first guy asks, "What do you do for a living?"
The second guy says, "I'm a lawyer."
The first says, "How much do you charge?"
The second guy says, "$100 for four questions."
The first guy says, "Isn't that a little expensive?"
The second guy says, "Yes. What's your fourth question?"


~thanks frm bottom of my heart to winnie and yixiong. grateful for being there~

how i feel

走到了这里，你说应该，我应该庆幸还是绝望？从起步到现在，哩数算不算远呢？路上有了一些不如意，但使终走到了这里。谁又知道人生的终哩数又有多少？

当交通灯变黄时，我感受到油门和煞车器一起被踩。。看来司机不知如何是好，而这样的行为也让我不知如所错。我一点也不好受啊。。于是我发出了巨响希望司机能做出决定。但现在我已不再发出巨响了，因为主控权不在于我掌握之中。

在我的世界里，我们的角色对调。你能想像那会是怎么样？

~all my besties are not with me now when i need them most~

12:42am and in a lab...

just finished main comm meeting, now doing some stuff in lab b4 i go to slp at cuister #1 and derrick's hall. NR lecture today shocked many ppl.. 203 got things to catch up lo~

on monday 9pm drama on chan 8 ended, i remember 1 character said to another: "even though we cannot be friends there's no need for us to be enemies"

i mention this not because it's related to me, but i feel for sure that it will be useful for some people. it's not friends OR enemies, even after some things have happened and its weird to be friends yet no need to think of or avoid that person like enemies do.

i dun wan meetings to be on wednesday for a reasonnnnn.................... =(

~life is beautiful..becos this world is imperfect~